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Relationship Advice For Men – Little Things Make A Big Difference |
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Submitted by Sarah Fisher
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Do your feel that marriage is getting on top of you? If you feel the only answer is to break free, relationship advice for men will help you see things from a different perspective. It doesn’t take a lot to improve your marriage in fact it’s the little things that make a difference.
Some men get it right at the outset but so often get too comfortable in a relationship and are oblivious to the advice that little gestures still count. They get to the stage where they feel that little things are too insignificant in the scheme of things, lose focus or just get so wrapped up with life that they can’t be bothered. Nothing in this life is for free, relationships are no different they have to be worked at.
For women to feel fulfilled they need to feel loved, it is rare for a woman not to want and need those small gestures. How often do you hear women moaning to their friends or colleagues about the insensitivity of their husband, how he doesn’t understand her, puts no thought into the gifts he buys, if he buys any, or just doesn’t seem to care. If you did a survey how many women would say that they feel they are just taken for granted……
Remember, nothing in this life if for free, my relationship advice for men is take care of your partner, show that you love her, take time to understand her, appreciate her and encourage her, don’t take her for granted.
Those little gestures make a real difference, the hug when you get home at night, the kiss when you see each other, the odd gift and showing interest in her day.
Show respect for your partner:
• Listen to her, respect her point of view.
• Don’t bulldoze her into your way of thinking.
• Don’t assume you're above doing all those boring household tasks. Do you think your wife really enjoys them??
• Offer to help, don’t wait to be asked.
• Encourage your wife and support her in anything she wants to do.
• Put your partner and your relationship first.
• Don’t just think of your own needs when lovemaking.
• Don’t cheat on your spouse.
Marriage is a partnership, a two way street, don’t assume that it can work with all the effort coming from one side. Don’t run, don’t try and break free, follow relationship advice that has been tried and tested. Think about little gestures and which will be right for your wife. I can’t tell you exactly what to do, people are different and appreciate different things, but I can point you in the right direction. Saving your marriage is now down to you.
Get involved in your marriage, don’t sit on the edge and look in. Show that you care, pay compliments, offer to help, plan surprises, respond when she talks to you and show an interest in what she does. Notice when your wife is tired or upset, tell her you love her, show her you love her, treat her in the same way as you did when you first went out.
You have sought relationship advice, don’t just go away and carry on doing things as you are now, really think about how you used to treat your wife, before you were married, she hasn’t changed she is still the same person underneath and will still appreciate the same things.
Those little things in life really do make a big difference.
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